Thursday, March 26, 2009

Oh Baby!

So we went to visit some friends that just had a little boy two weeks ago. His name is Malachi and he has to be the tiniest baby I've ever seen! He weighs just under 7 pounds and to me, he looked like a preemie!

From the moment I saw him it was almost like he wasn't real! He looked like a little doll! As I was holding him (which felt like I was holding air!) I started thinking about my other friends and how big their babies were when I first met them. I don't remember any of them being this small. Maybe it's just because Max was so large when he was born and he was the last newborn I held before Chi.

Putting the two boys next to each other made Max seem even more beastly. And it also made me feel like a seasoned mother. I've only had him for 4 months, but I feel like I'm eons ahead of Lisa (the other mom's name is Lisa too :) when I listened to her talking.

Isn't it amazing how quickly they grow and we gain the confidence of a mother? Look how big my little boy is!

Monday, March 23, 2009

A Little Logic

In our current economy, many people are making late payments or no payments at all on their bills. Some are getting way behind because they've lost their jobs or their interest rates have risen on their lines of credit.

Fortunately, I am not one of these people. I have always paid my bills on time, and in many cases (with the exception of major purchases like the house, a car) paid in full within a 30 day period. I am also one to take advantage of same as cash deals on larger purchases so that I don't have to deplete my savings account to make the purchase.

Since some of you only know me through the blogging world, I will note here that the only reason I would pay a bill late is if I didn't know about it. This happened to be the case with my January bill from Eddie Bauer. Somehow I had inadvertently change from a paper bill to an electronic bill. They contacted me via phone to ask why I hadn't paid my December bill and I told them that I hadn't received my statement in the mail and just hadn't thought about it after the holidays. I immediately rectified the situation over the phone by paying the entire bill with my credit card. I also requested that any further bills be sent as paper statements.I thought that was the end of it.

I received a bill the other day from my Eddie Bauer Credit Account. When I opened the bill I was surprised to see that I had a 54 dollar balance and it was a "past due" statement. I have not made any purchases on the card since December and had paid off the previous balance. When I started reading the statement more closely it said that I was being charged a late fee. I was irate. I called the 1800 number and politely asked why I was being charged a late fee on an account that had no balance.

Upon further inspection, the representative told me that I had been charged a late fee in January for not paying my bill on time. I asked the gentleman why I wasn't informed of that fee when I paid the bill over the phone. Of course, he had no idea. It was noted on my account that I had requested paper statements be reissued and that there had been some type of miscommunication over the December bill. He read it to me. He then told me that as a one time courtesy he would wave that late fee. I thought THAT was the end of it. Then he told me I'd still have to pay the late fee on the late fee. WHAT?!?!?!!

I asked him if he saw the logic in still charging me a late fee on a late fee he had just waved. He agreed that it didn't make much sense, but that he was only allowed to wave one late fee. I asked to speak with his supervisor. He told me there was really no point in speaking to them because they would tell me the same thing. I told the young man that I wanted to hear it directly from the supervisor's lips.

At first the supervisor was adamant that they had a policy. Then I explained that it made no sense to make me pay a late fee on a fee that was just waived off of my account. That if they had waived the first fee or asked me to pay it at the time that I had originally rectified the late bill, we wouldn't even be in this situation. She was silent for a moment (making the connection, maybe?) and then said, "Fine, I'll waive the second late fee, even though I'm not supposed to." While I think she was rude because my logic made more sense than her policy, I still won. And that makes me happy. :)

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Happiness

I was listening to the John Tesh radio show tonight on the way home. He was talking about a new study that suggests that people who are happy make the people around them happy without doing anything but being happy. Almost like it radiates off of them and the people around them absorb that happiness.

It's a fascinating concept. I started to think, am I happy? Yes! And then I started to think, am I making the people around me happy? I'm not sure. But the concept sure sounds nice, that I don't have to do anything but be happy. He said that the people most affected are those that live within a one mile radius of you. Obviously your spouse, family, and neighbors are the most affected. Coworkers and other people that you know that live in that range are also affected to a lesser degree.

It was also suggested that people you know by association can make you happy, so basically friends of friends. I think that's true. For example, Jessica and I were talking about a friend who just had twins. I'm not really friends with this girl, but I know her pretty well and I'm happy for her. Knowing that she's happy makes me happy. I can think of multiple examples of this, where a friend tells me a happy story about someone they know and then I feel good. The idea being that you get to hear that someone else is happy and then become happy by association.

The same would also be true, according to this study, of negative feelings. So of course, the study suggests that you should avoid spending time with negative people.

While most of this seems like common sense, it also suggested that people you don't even know would be affected by your happy mood. I would assume this would mean the people you come in contact with that don't really know you, but pick up on your emotions. For example, the woman who makes your coffee gets a smile and maybe a bigger tip because of your good mood, which in turn puts her in a better mood.

Any thoughts?

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Saturday, March 14, 2009

No Thumb- but still!

I found some of these shots to be amusing consiering his shirt of the day. Thumb picture later. On the regular camera. These are just from my cell.















Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Uh Oh...

Max is now sucking his thumb. His left thumb. It's super cute and he's learning to self soothe....but how am I going to break this later???? I'll try to get a picture of it. :)

Monday, March 09, 2009

WTF?

Someone is out mowing their lawn. It's not my neighbor...suprisingly.

But what the heck are they mowing? The grass in my yard is still brown! Oh wait, maybe that's because we're the neighbors that don't do anything to our lawn except mow and pray for rain. No, it's still too early.

Put that mower away!

Friday, March 06, 2009

My True Colors Glaring Through

A true representation of my personality and hopefully that of my son. Yes, I'm goofy. It's what makes me AWESOME. I rock.

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Magic Gravy

Since Morrie had more of his teeth pulled in January, we've been softening his food with water. He doesn't have any teeth on the top, right side of his mouth and very few on the bottom on that side. We noticed that he wasn't eating the food hard and as soon as we made it mushy he would chow.

We've been having a problem with Maggie trying to eat his food too. We thought maybe it was because she was bored with her own food. So we bought her something new. It seemed to work for a while, but lately we've been yelling at her again for eating Morrie's.

This morning I noticed that she was sitting by the sink staring at Morrie's bowl while the food soaked. After placing his bowl on the floor, she immediately tried to snack with him. So I tried something new...I told Kendall to take her bowl to the sink and put some water on the food. She sat there staring at the bowl and then followed Kendall back to her spot on the floor and promptly ate more than half of the food in one sitting.

Basically, she thinks we're putting some type of gravy on Morrie's food and not hers. That's why she's been eating his food. As soon as she thought we were putting the same "gravy" on her food, she ate it. Silly puppy.

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

New Things I've Learned About Max

1. His new favorite song is "I Like Chinese" by Monty Python. He likes both the original version and the one that Kendall and I made up words to. It usually calms him from crying.

2. If I leave him in his crib for long enough after his morning nap, he will usually work out a poop. He will sometimes lay in there, making small noises, for almost a half an hour. The whole room sometimes stinks when I finally go get him.

3. He likes pooping in public. And usually those poops explode out of his diaper and down his legs, which means a wardrobe change.

4. He now recognizes "The Boob". If you show it to him and he's upset, it will sometimes calm him. It's kind of funny...then again, I'm flashing my kid, which is a little weird. :)

5. He is starting to figure out he has feet. The other day I caught him grabbing at his toes. He is also the most ticklish on his feet. He will actually giggle when I tickle him there.