Wednesday, October 29, 2008

TMI

You've been warned.....

So I'm sitting here with no pants on as I write this post. Why? Because it feels like NONE of my pants fit anymore!!! It's so frustrating! I've only gained 20 pounds my entire pregnancy but my stomach is sticking out to kingdom come and all of the elastic feels super tight. It actually makes Max uncomfortable too when I sit. He squirms more. It's awful. I'm actually thinking of looking for those underwear I bought like months ago that I swore would NEVER fit me, just to see if they do!
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So I've been having Braxton Hicks contractions about 4 an hour the last several days. They've started to slow down today, but they're super uncomfortable. My doctor said that I'm not dilated at all yet, which is good, but that if I get 6 or more in an hour I need to go to the ER. Then he says, "So are you still working full time?" Ummm, yes! I'm going to work until he tells me I can't work anymore. I don't want to waste any sick pay. I'd rather get paid for staying at home with Max. And I think he's tired of being in there. He won't stop moving! All the time. Stretching, pushing, kicking, punching, bumping. I'm going crazy! At some point I thought he was supposed to get too big to move this much. When is that going to happen?!?!?!
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My transmission also exploded yesterday. I was driving down the highway at 70 miles per hour, okay probably more like 75 miles per hour, and all of the sudden the engine started making this horrible sound and the car started to slow down. When I tried to hit the gas, I got nothing. So I put on my emergency flashers, cut over three lanes of traffic, and drove up the berm at 20 miles per hour. Fortunately I was at my work exit and I was able to drive at 20 miles per hour down the street to the mechanic I trust. They looked at the car and told me the transmission casing is cracked. So they can't rebuild it, they have to replace it. Several thousand dollars later, I'll have my car back on Thursday. *sigh* Just when we were getting our savings account back where we wanted it from the June flood.
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I've been taking a lot of abuse from parents via email at work lately. I'm not sure if they don't realize how rude they sound, or if they don't care. Here's an example: (This is just a portion of a letter from an irate grandmother. Her son (the student's father) had been sent a letter at the beginning of the year explaining a long term assignment that was given. The dad signed that he understood the assignment and that it was a long term grade that would more strongly affect his son's quarterly grade. That obviously wasn't enough for grandma.)

"As you can see, I am very unhappy about the situation...even though his Father signed the paperwork, he was not aware that Student X was not fulfilling his assignment. Now that we are aware of it, we will make sure there is not a repeat of the situation. Perhaps some thought should be given to some kind of an alert to parents before the 11th hour has been reached...even though by the 7th grade students need to take more responsibility."

No, perhaps some thought should have been given to the fact that PARENTS are responsible for asking their child if their homework is done. Now, didn't I just mention that dad was made aware of the assignment 9 weeks ago? That he acknowledge that he understood it was a LONG TERM assignment. Doesn't that make it HIS responsibility to be aware or whether his son is working on this assignment? I didn't realize that it was my job to send home a second notice to every parent that they should be periodically asking their child if they do their homework and school projects. I obviously wasn't thinking when I assumed that PARENTS were responsible for keeping track of these things AT HOME. Silly me.

6 comments:

Mamma Sarah said...

Could it be that Max is trying to get out early? :-D I never did experience that "slow down" phase with either of my kids... and it could be because you are still on the go so much. Who knows. Sorry to hear that you can't wear pants comfortably! That really stinks. Hang in there!

Guess the dad didn't understand the long term assignment concept. It seems that so many parents just don't care about education the way they should.

Karen said...

yeah, the no pants thing is understandable. I had so many contractions my ob sent me to the hospital. I had them ever 4 minutes but that wasn't enough and they sent me home. "Don't worry," they consoled, "there's no way you'll make it to your due date at this rate." 4 weeks later they had to pop me to get her out.

i hope you get to go early though, being uncomfortable is never fun.

Martha said...

Well, you can start wearing mumus, if that helps. :) Sorry, I have no other advice, but I hope it gets better (even if you have to buy more pregnancy panties).

On the grandparent thing - what the crap that the GRANDMOTHER who has NO legal authority over the kid gets to butt in like this. She knows where she can shove it. The childs father is a grown-up (theoretically). Hell, I'd probably be rude enough to point that out to her in a reply back - about how the father signed it and beings he was the legal guardian you don't feel comfortable discussing the child's performance with her without him directly present. What a pussy that HE can't deal with his and his child's actions so this grown man's MOTHER has to do it.

Finlands finest said...

I think parents need to take more responsibility in general for thier childs education. I know there are parents out there that do--but I feel like I hear what you just said more and more. It IS their responsibility to make sure their child does their homework--they are the ones at home with the child!

Can you do skirts?? Or are they too tight too? I hope you can find something comfortable to wear.

YOu have a soccer player in there!! He is practicing his dribbling and obviously practicing the winning shot! :)

Viki said...

Ditto on the parents taking responsibility. I LOVE the Obama commercials that talk about how he wants to pay teachers more, but that parents need to do things like turn off the TV at home and make sure kids do their homework!

I'm sorry your pants don't fit. That would piss me off, too.

Ms. Sarah said...

Not exactly the same situation, but for about a month after my surgery I couldn't wear regular pants, so I feel you on that one. Sitting around without pants on is always acceptable, though I wouldn't advise that look for work.

The parent situation is infuriating. Certainly there are some parents out there who actually follow through with limits and expectations for their own children, but all to often people expect someone else to do it for them. Bullshit.